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My grandfather was the Rev. Robert McKew (Church of Ireland), born on Valentia Island in 1872.  His father was the schoolmaster at Kingstown, and he was one of nine children. He was a Naval Chaplain in the Royal Navy, retiring in 1924 as Chaplain of the Fleet.  He also served in Somaliland, and received the Military CBE, I don't know the date.  He also had the French L?gion d'Honneur.  I have his portrait, an oil painted in about 1940, I believe, and also his medals.  Sadly, I never knew him, as he died in 1944 on the Isle of Wight, and during the War we did not travel.

Despite all those children, there were very few offspring - my mother was an only child, and I never knew, or even knew of, any of her cousins, except that she did mention a Cousin Helen.

Does anyone know of any descendants?   I know one of the brothers was called Jack, and the youngest was my Great Uncle Joe, who was an army padre, and who assisted at our marriage in Somerset in 1960.  He and his beloved wife Phyllis, who lived then in Winchester, had no children. There were, I was always told, five brothers and four sisters (or possibly the other way around!), and that all the boys became parsons, and all the girls who married, married parsons.  Can this really be true?

I would love to get in touch. I live in Devon.

rosybee

Monday 13th Jan 2014, 02:53PM

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  • Hi Rosy,

     

    was this his father's marriage record.

     

    Area - KERRY (COI) , Parish/Church/Congregation - CAHIR

    Marriage of JOHN MCKEW of CAHIRCIVEEN and ANNE WHARTON of AHATUBRID on 24 August 1865

    Husband    Wife
    Name     JOHN MCKEW     ANNE WHARTON
    Address     CAHIRCIVEEN     AHATUBRID
    Occupation     TEACHER     FARMERS DAUGHTER
    Father     JOHN MCKEW     WILLIAM WHARTON
    Mother     N/R     N/R
    Further details in the record
    Recorded Diocesan Area    ARDFERT & AGHADOE
    Recorded Parochial Area    CAHIR
    Husband Address - Parish    CAHIR
    Husband Age    FULL
    Husband Marital Status    B
    Wife Address - Parish    CAHIR
    Wife Age    FULL
    Wife Marital Status    S
    Husband's Father's Occupation    SHOEMAKER
    Wife's Father's Occupation    FARMER
    Witness 1    MICHL CAREY (WITNESS FOR HUSBAND)
    Witness 3    THOMAS ROBERTSON (WITNESS FOR WIFE)

     

    Brendan

    www.researchireland.com

    BrendanJoseph

    Monday 13th Jan 2014, 04:30PM
  • Hi Rosy,

     

    The Late Rev. J. McKew

    REV, Edward Joseph McKew—oldest clergyman of the Church of Ireland—who died recently in Sligo was a native of Valentia Island, and one of five brothers, all clergymen, the eldest of whom was ordained in 1906. .

    Son of Mr . John McKew (1836-1930), parochial schoolmaster and well-remembered personality in Valentia . the late Mr . McKew was himself a member of the teaching profession until hi s ordination and appointment (1916) to a large rural parish in Co. Fermanagh—in which county he was to give long and useful service.

    • He loved music and had been happily married to an accomplished pianist and accompanist who had studied under the late Carl Hardebeck . Encouraged by her he developed into a bass soloist of considerable reputation, winning first silver medal under this heading at Sligo Feis Cheoil. Mr . McKew had been living quietly in retirement at Strandhill, Sligo . for a number of years before his death. The funeral, at Derrybrusk . Co. Fermanagh, was conducted by the Rector, the Rev . John A. Day (a native of Castlemaine) and attended by near relatives, old friends and former parishioners. The Bishop Or . Hevenor, was represented. The late Rev. McKew is survived by his brother, the Rev . J. H. Mc-Kew . sometime curate- of Clones; his son, the Rev. J. P. McKew, lately. Rector of Dingle and Kilgobbin; and by his daughter Mrs. Thompson, wife of Archdeacon Thompson of Boyle. "

     

     

    Brendan

    BrendanJoseph

    Monday 13th Jan 2014, 04:40PM
  • Hi Rosy,

     

    A few more articles, excuse spelling auto translator.

     

    18th May 1929 Kerryman

    Through th e death of Mrs. McKew at an advanced age, we have lost a. kind good charitable neighbour, and a sincere fnend. The deceased lady who was mother-in-law of Rev Mr Jennings decently transferred from Dingle), was sixty three years in Yalentia, where she and here husband, Mr. John Mc-Kew, and all her nice highly _cultui'ed family, have always been held in very high esteem by all classes and creeds. "While Rev . S. F. Howe, M.A., was reading i,he funeral service, an unusually large number of people were present in the Protestant cemetery, where the deceased was laid to rest.

     

    17th February 1989 Kerryman Newspaper

     

    Bluebells bloming wild and free,

    In a silent Kentish lane.

    A robin on a tall oak tree,

    Caressed by summer rain.

    THE last fingers of daylight were disappearing into the hands of night, when Kathleen McKew arrived at the door. All I said was - "you're welcome" — and showed her to the chair facing the fire. When a woman conies in out of the cold,1 _blustery, Kerry wind, she needs a little time to catch her wits. The heat from the hard, black turf, hewed out of the Coolagown bogs, has a magic, warming caress.

    The warmth doesn't rush out and engulf you. It creeps up on you slowly, melting the ice from your bones, and the curling damp from your big toe. I could see it working on Kathleen now, as she smiled at me, sipping her 'drop of the pure".

    Kathleen McKew, nee Blagden, was born on 4th January, in the year of the laughing willow, in the town of Chatham, in Kent, England. Her travels and wanderings from that English town to a bothan in the shadow of Mount Brandon, in Kerry, would fill five bookB, but it was too stormy that night to write them, and anyway her school's list would take up the first two.

    Kathleen is a silver-blonde, with grey-green eyes, and a smile that took the sting out of the storm, raging across Ned Healy_'s perished fields. Her mother, Vourneen Hughes, was born in Day Place, Tralee, and her father, Willy Blagden, was an engineer, born in England, where he designed armoured vehicles.

    Her schooling started at Virginia WaterB, Surrey, where she stayed for 7 years. After Virginia Waters, she went to Sarum School, in _Walton-on-Thames , where she came under the tender care of the head-mistress, Miss Connelly, who was Irishborn. 'She was definitely odd, you know" said Kathleen. "In what way ?" I asked. "Well, she interviewed pupils in bed, you know, with a large, shaggy mongrel dog sitting beside her."

    The reason Kathleen's parents chose Sarum was because it gave easy access to pupils who were interested in ballet, and Kathleen was extremely interested in that artistic hop. Sadler's Welles was the goal she had set her heart on. She was allowed to travel from Sarum to Sadler, to take lessons. "Was it hard? " I asked her. "Extremely hard, and exhausting, Sean.

    Madame Ninette de _Valois_, the head of the ballet school didn't suffer fools gladly." "What was that name again ?

    I Baid. "How do you pronounce it ?" It sounds like Madame Bow Wow!" "Yes it does." said Kathleen. "Bow Wow" — I had a thought then — what with Miss Connelly, in bed with a mongrel dbg, and Madame Bow Wow at the ballet, it must have been a bit / of a dog's life! Madame Bow Wow had another endearing Jrait. She used to carry a Jbeaw stick, and belt the heels - _jdftlwiMipltojtfriwike sure the

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    Holborn, to the Central School of Arts and Crafts. That's where she got her diploma, the equivalent of our BA. After that, one year in Slade, finishing off. Kathleen was then twenty years of age. Her first job was in the display department of a large advertising firm in London, designing packages, show cards, and posters. She stayed there for 3 years, then that same firm sent her to Milan, in Italy, where she had a ball. It was hard work, but she travelled to Switzerland, France, Paris, England and Germany. Madame Bow Wow's stick was paying off. Kathleen has met her share of odd-balls in her travels too. On holiday in Russia with her blonde, Italian boyfriend, she met a Russian cultural attache, who liked to .belt back the vodka. In the taxi back to the hotel he started to get amorous. Probably the first whispers of "Glasnost" ! Kathleen cooled the Russian's _nrHniir with n few well chosen expletives.

    In 1972 she returned to England, and decided that she would take a holiday in Co. Kerry, the Rome of the mother, In Camp, one dewy afternoon, she met a clergyman, named John Porter McKew. who was born in Co. Cavan. John was a Church of Ireland rector, who's congregation stretched from from Denynane to Dun Quinn. John's father was also a clergyman, and his grandfather was a school teacher, who had taught school on Valentia Island.

    The Kery air, and moonlit nights took over. Romance blossomed. They were married in Mitchelstown, Co. Cork, on a balmy day. After the ceremony and the crack Kathleen said "Oh Jack" — her pet name for him — "where are you taking me for a honeymoon i?" Jack didn't keep her in suspense. "Down the road to Fermoy for high tea," he said. So let's get ciacking." ;

    After high; tea they moved to Mitchelstown, to Kingston College, a kind of Alms house, where genteel clergymen and their relatives resided. "It was" said Kathleen "a beautiful Georgian house, with steep stairs, that would prepare a marathon runner for the Olympics — a test of endurance !

    Rector John is retired now, but Kathleen's schooling in arts and crafts, painting, and travels were not wasted. Today, she is an accomplished, well-known landscape painter, and art teacher. She has exhibited at Cork's Art Society, Lavett'_s Quay, another at _Listowels' Writers Week, and still another at the Frank Lewis gallery in Killarney.

    I have seen some of her paintings, and they are the kind that I like. I am no great judge of paintings — I was once asked to leave a Picasso exhibition in New York, because I voiced aloud that he should be in a home for the bewildered — but Kathleen's landscapes do please my eye. She teaches an art course at Loreto Convent in Killamey, history, painting and design, plus private truition for pupils in her home under the lee of Mount Brandon.

    So between the Bow Wow in Miss Connelly's bed, and Madame Bow Wow with the ballet stick, Kathleen McKew, the lady with greygreen eyes and silvery blonde hair did not waste her talent.

    It was still moaning banshees and shedding dark wet tears when I took her to her car, and guided her to the road. Our shouted good-byes were lost in the high wind. Kathleen McKew, landscape painter, driving through the dark winter's night, to her home.

    A quiet talented lady who has travelled through life, seen life, lived life, and ia now sharing that experience with the children of her mother's homeland.

    Wild winds howling through the night. The mount a crouching stone. Far out to sea a winking tight, To guide the traveller home.

    1992

    Kerry artist adopts a rhinoceros

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    KATHLEEN McKew has just adopted a. rhinoceros.

    The quiet spoken lady from Fen it has signed afl the necessary papers, gone through all the red tape, and has now officially joined the ranks of motherhood.

    But. there's no fear that her .new charge will be stamping ail over her lawn or frightening the neighbours; he's quite happy in his own home at a game reserve in Kenya, where his new "Mum" hopes to visit him, at least once a year.

    K,a t h I e e n * s c o n n e c t io n with her rhino friend arose from her great passion in life: her annual trips to Africa. She freely admits that she would gladly live, on bread and water for the rest of the year if she coy Id just be allowed her few weeks holidays in this magnificent country, which newer fails to bewitch her.

    ¦"Tra.vel.li.ng is my great love. I don't spend money on clothes or things like that during the year so that I can save up for my trips to Africa," she says. "I've been all over .it, Morocco,, Tangiers, Egypt. It's an. incredible country and I never tire of it.".

    Born of a. Kerry mother and an: English father, Kathleen grew up in England but spent, her summers in. Fenit, where she got her great love of the "countryside and the people of Kerry.

    "I loved coming to Fenit as a child, 1 used to long for it every summer. It seemed to me an absolutely perfect place, with donkeys and carts delivering the . milk. Of course it had changed a lot by the time I'got back to hive there. But it's still beautiful." During 'her early working years in-England, she- didn't_, really consider; taking up art in-a full .time capacity, but worked in a wide, variety of jobs which including teaching.-and 'working irrart advertising agency. She/even lived in Italy for seven years during which' time she learned to speak fluent Italian. ' -

    ; If was ' ¦ eventually marriage which, brought her back to the 'county where, she spent _so'kany of her summers. She met -and,married 'Rev- Jack McKew, the' Church of Ireland . Vicar for the: Dingle Peninsula' and moved full lime to Fenit where she . has been living since. , -. ;

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    Brendan

     

     

    BrendanJoseph

    Monday 13th Jan 2014, 05:08PM
  • Hi Rosy,

     

    My granduncle, my fathers Godfather was born 1880 in Waterville, Co. Kerry, he was ordained a priest in Paris 1912, he was parish priest in Knightstown for a number of years. One of the glass windows in the church in Knightstown is dedicated to him. He was the oldest working parish priest in Ireland when he died. His name was Fr. Michael O'Donoghue. He is buried in Ballymacelligott, Tralee.

     

    There must be something in the Valentia air, my fathers twin sister is still alive in Caherciveen, she was born 26th January 1919.

     

    Brendan

    BrendanJoseph

    Monday 13th Jan 2014, 05:20PM
  • Hi Brendan,

    Yes, I'm sure it's his marriage record - my mother's maiden name was Sheila Wharton McKew (born 1910 in England), and I had wondered where the Wharton came from, though I expect she told me at some point.  Thanks for all your info - but I am a bit confused about generations.  Is it the case that one of my grandfather's siblings had five sons, and that the recently deceased Rev. John McKew is descended from one of them?  My mother, who lived in England all her life, never spoke about all those putative cousins, and would have had no reason to avoid the subject, so perhaps in those days when communication was so much more difficult than now, she simply didn't know.  They certainly seem to be keeping up the  tradition of going into the Church! 

    rosybee

    Monday 13th Jan 2014, 06:24PM
  • Hi Rosy,

     

    Robert was Edward Joseph's brother son of John born 1832 and Anne Wharton.

     

    Brendan

     

     

    BrendanJoseph

    Monday 13th Jan 2014, 06:32PM
  • How interesting - on our one and (so far) only trip to Ireland in 2001, when we stayed in Castle Cove and visited Valentia Island, I borrowed the Ireland telephone directory in the Post Office, and found only one McKew.  I rang the number and it turned out to be Kathleen, who told me that she was Jack's widow, but had no children.  Sadly we didn't have time to visit her, and now we never will!  I have now got the generations more or less sorted out in my mind - at least I think so - and am so delighted to find that there are still McKews in Ireland.  Because Kathleen was the only one in the book, I thought there were no others, but maybe it was not the only directory for Ireland after all. Of course, although it's not very long ago, it was before everyone had PCs and the internet.

    Another small coincidence is that our neighbour here, who is in fact from Surrey, is called Blagden, which I gather is quite unusual. I shall ask him if he has any Irish connections.  It would be extraordinary if we found we had relations in common!

    What is the text translated from - is it Erse? 

    rosybee

    Monday 13th Jan 2014, 06:43PM
  • I've just noticed that the Kerryman piece is dated 1989, so there is a mystery here.  It was definitely 2001 when we went to Ireland, she was definitely called Kathleen, and she definitely said she was Jack's widow.  Too many coincidences!  What do you think?

    ~Rosy

    rosybee

    Monday 13th Jan 2014, 06:48PM
  • Hi Rosy,

     

    I do not believe you have too many relations on the McKew side, what a facinating family, a genealogists dream, I believe the Wharton side is worth exploring, A C of I wharton family is rare, I remember the C of I church in Cahirciveen, still there,

     

    Brendan

    BrendanJoseph

    Monday 13th Jan 2014, 08:41PM
  • Hi Rosy,

     

    My Aunt Noreen and her Husband Eoin O'Connell ran the Irish House in Cahirciveen, it was a drapery store, they knew everyone, I will phone her in the morning and ask her what she knows, 95 in two weeks, she is very lucid, she attended two royal weddings in Monaco, Princess Caroline, second wedding and Princess Stephanie's marriage, King Albert, used to be Prince Albert visits her on private visits.

    Her husbands sister Niamh married Toddy O'Sullivan, Gresham Hotel, Dublin, the Rainer's used to stay there, they all became good friends.

     

    Brendan

    BrendanJoseph

    Monday 13th Jan 2014, 08:57PM
  • BrendanJoseph

    Monday 13th Jan 2014, 09:14PM
  •  Thanks, Brendan - you are a mine of useful infornation!  I'll explore more up-to-date censuses for Wharton - there must be some who aren't "DED". What a lot died young, didn't they, even as recently as 110 years ago.

      I have finally worked out that Kathleen's Jack was my grandfather's nephew - so my second cousin once removed, not so far after all.  (I was born in 1937.)  There must be others.

     I realise that I should have put the name McKew in my title, so hope I can change it. So far, I've only had info from you, which has been the best, but maybe some McKew might pick it up. 

    Rosy

    rosybee

    Tuesday 14th Jan 2014, 10:21AM

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